Showing posts with label Vacations. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Vacations. Show all posts

Sunday, August 2, 2009

Bucket List

Do you have one? Probably not. If you've received a cancer diagnosis, you undoubtedly have one. It may not be written down, but it's in your head and you mentally check off the items if you're lucky enough to have them come true. Friday night, I checked off #3 on my list. It went down like this...


The venue did not allow photographs or autographs, but they didnt' say anything about video, so T snuck this video while the venue snapped their own photograph. In case you don't recognize us, that's me meeting Rick Springfield for the first time! A dream come true. #3 on my bucket list checked off. What you don't hear on the video is me explaining my condition and Rick saying, "you're going to beat it".

What led up to that point in the evening had to be some of the most beautiful moments I've experienced in my life. The concert was set up on the lawn to the side of the Biltmore Estate. The views were breathtaking. On one side you viewed the massive Estate, on the other side were the mountains & on the other was the stage. I felt like I was on top of the world while looking down through the clouds. We were seated 10 rows back from the stage, which provided an unbelievable view of Rick. Beside us were two girls from Raleigh with whom I shared stories about Rick during the entire evening. We danced & screamed together at the top of our lungs...& the best part was, they also had backstage passes to the meet & greet! And then, just as it was probably meant to be, while the crew was breaking down the stage from Loverboy & setting up Rick's stage, a little old man seated in front of us turned around to talk to us.

It was a flashback from 27 years ago. Just like my Dad was sitting there with earplugs at my first Rick Springfield concert, so was this man. He didn't come to see Rick. He was just there to see an outdoor concert at the Biltmore & this one seemed to be the best one to see of the summer. As we were talking, he mentioned that his daughter was in Spain celebrating the removal of her portacath. Immediately, I knew exactly what he was talking about. His daughter had cancer. Without a word, I slightly pulled my top to the side and showed him my port & the tears welled up in his eyes. His daughter Camile is also a 38 year old breast cancer survivor. We talked about my cancer story and hers and he asked questions that I'm certain he was never able to discuss with her. He was so kind, just like my Dad. His 38 year old daughter is fighting cancer, just like my Dad. I don't know if I gave the man hope or encouragement, but speaking with him was such a gift for both of us. Just before Rick came out, this sweet man said, "you know, you learn to really enjoy life after you've received such a diagnosis, don't you"? I said, "I've learned to enjoy each & every day". He said, "you're right...a good cup of coffee, a crisp Fall afternoon". Life truly is a gift, my friends...untie the ribbons.

Below are some more pics of our weekend in Asheville. T & I decided to go back to Lake Lure & take the lake tour this time. It was a GORGEOUS afternoon. We wound our way through the mountains on our way back to the interstate. It may have taken us a bit longer to get home (we'll be purchasing a Garmin this week), but we enjoyed every moment like a "good cup of coffee".


Loverboy...Lovin' Every Minute of It
(I think he swallowed a fan!)

Not bad for turning 60 in a few weeks!

As the night went on, Rick lost more & more layers...

Until he was shirtless...

Security said this was a nightmare, but yes, Rick jumped in to the crowd. That's his sweaty back just a few chairs down!


Lake Lure
This is where they filmed the film Dirty Dancing
This tiny house was the first built on Lake Lure back in the 1920's. It was built before the lake was filled. Talk about a good guestimate!

One of the mountains surrounding Lake Lure looks like a woman lying on her side...do you see it?

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

OBX...yes, there's more!















"Almost Home", Rodanthe, NC















When the tide came in, the water came right up to the house!















Kitchen...
















Living room...
















Making smores.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

OBX cont...

"To the third floor, please." Once Toby discovered the elevator, he never used the stairs again. He even took the elvator solo a few times!














































We took the girls to one of the only "souvenir" shops we found on Hatteras Island & told them to buy anything they wanted...this is what Emily came up with. A rubber chicken. Yes, that reminds me of the OBX...how about you?































Um, no thanks.

Monday, November 24, 2008

OBX Day Two















It was a little windy in the bed of the truck!




















Since we were pretty much the only people on the beach, we decided to teach the girls how to drive. Here's Megan...



















Keep your eyes on the road...err...sand!




















Then Emily took over the wheel.






























"Nights in Rodanthe" house...or as the locals call it: Serendipity















As you can see from the above pic, the foundation has completely lifted. The house is on the verge of being condemned.


I'm pretty sure Richard Gere stood right here. I "felt" his presence!










Sunday, November 23, 2008

Thanksgiving OBX

This year, we decided to take the girls to the OBX for Thanksgiving. It was our first time there as a family. We stayed on Hatteras Island in Rodanthe. What's in Rodanthe, you ask? Well, not much besides an old abandoned house that was used to film the outside scenes in Nights In Rodanthe. The nearest grocery store was 20 miles south & most of the local restaurants were closed for the season. It was the PERFECT vacation & we created many memories to last a lifetime!